I believe that in our most natural state, humans are
basically happy. However, very few "natural" humans are
left out there 'in the wild' so to speak. You'll find most of us in
'civilization' now, where worry, fear and peer pressure often squash
our natural happiness.
But, we still have a right and need to experience
happiness. When we are happy our bodies are healthier, our lives
become fulfilling, and we cheer others around us.
After air, water, food, and security--what do we
really want? Happiness.
Even if we say "What I really want is "more
money" or "a new job" or "to find the love of
my life" the reason we want those things is because we hope/think
they will make us happy.
We seek happiness like plants seek the sun. And
we should, because happiness makes us healthy.
Humans are resilient beings. We can be happy even
under the hardest circumtances. But sometimes we get stuck, and
happiness seems out of reach, even when things on the surface appear
alright. What then?
Then it is time to give all our emotions
a moment under the sun: sadness as well as joy, anger as well as
calm. To accept ourselves where we are. Acceptance nurtures real
happiness, like water on young plants. Happiness grows from loving
yourself, being with yourself, forgiving yourself. Happiness comes
from caring about others, our communities, our world.
Everybody needs some space once in a while. Space
to be free, dance, sing or yell, get some counseling, laugh with
a friend, be silly, or whatever. Go ahead, escape the zoo for a
few hours. We're rooting for you!
--Evan Kimble. August, 2008
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